Saturday, June 15, 2013

Memeorial Day Weekend

One of the main reasons Darren wanted us to visit him in Marianna was to go to the big Memorial Day weekend party at his boss's house.  Darren's boss and his wife have a big party every year for Memorial Day for all the employees and his friends.  They have a house with a sweet set up on a lake.   We spent the whole day there and had a great time!  They had wave runners that my kids LOVED.


This was my kids first time on wave runners.


The house had 3 docks- one with a slide and boats, another one for boats and this one- a platform for jumping off at different heights.  Darren jumped off the top without blinking an eye.  In fact, he hopped up on that hand railing on the top and walked along it and then jumped off!  I am proud to say I jumped off the top twice, and Ellie did it too!


Kyle making a funny face for the camera again!

They had brought in all this sand all along the 3 piers.  It was awesome!

Darren and Paul went Kayaking

Gabe did a little relaxing

Ellie and Kyle

Darren did a little relaxing too.

Gabe being cute!

Then we went boating and the kids got pulled on a tube.


Me and Gabe

Another one of me and my baby

These trees on the edges of the lake were SO cool!  It was like a Dr. Seuss book!


Kyle!

 The water was so pleasant! We all commented on how nice it is to swim in fresh water instead of salt water!

We would go down the slide, then would jump in the hot tub- then back down the slide.

Gabe went down the slide with Darren but didn't really care for it.
I would have gotten so many more pictures of the house, and barbecue area, fire pit area.  But my camera ran out of battery.  Anyways, we had a fabulous time.  They had done such a great job with everything- the food, decorations, and providing plenty of fun things to do!  It was what our family needed after being apart for 6 long weeks. 


Friday, June 7, 2013

Swimming hole

After the caves we took a nice dip in a swimming hole, formed by natural springs.  That water was COLD! Well, for Florida it was cold, if it had been in Montana it would have felt like a hot tub.  Being around the water with Gabe made me nervous, so we hung out on the lawn.  Well, actually I chased him around the whole time.
Here we are- a family!, We tried to go snorkeling, but you couldn't really see anything.

Paul being cute

So good to see this face!

Kyle!

Kyle loves to make faces for the camera- he is actually good at it too!

I think he is going to be the class clown.  Just like his dad. Yea, Darren actually used to be funny before Anesthesia School! He was voted Class Clown in High School!

Gabe won't let me put on his sunscreen, he wants to do it himself!

hmmm

Don't eat it!

Too late


Get back here! Can't you just sit on this blanket with me and relax?

I said get back here!

Darren and the kids jumping from the dock as I followed Gabe

I tried forever to get Gabe to look through this wood at me so I could get a cute picture of his little face.  He refused to look at the camera.  This was the best picture I could get.

Here was some of the pretty landscape we passed by on our way back from swimming.


Thursday, June 6, 2013

Marianna Florida Vacation

Finally, after a long 6 weeks, (as you probably noticed) we got to see Darren!  He had spent the last 6 weeks working in Marianna Florida.  It was 7 hours away from Naples.  It is clear up in the Panhandle. 
His last workday there was right before the Memorial holiday, and Darren thought it would be fun if we went up there to see him, hang out for the weekend and then come home together.
 So I drove up there, and actually had a great time listening to C.S. Lewis books on CD.  The kids were good and the drive was pretty.  All the colors were beautiful while I was driving- it was like I was in Narnia or something.  Where we live, in Southern Florida, it is very tropical.  But once you get up North, past about Tampa, it changes to the "South".  Where Darren lived was a lot more like Alabama and Georgia, and less like Florida.

We stayed in the house that his school provides for the students to live in.  It was disgusting.  They don't have a vacuum in the house, and didn't have someone come clean it between rotations, so the house hasn't been vacuumed in at least 12 weeks.  Yea, 12 weeks. There were dead bugs,  everywhere.   And the furniture looked like it had been rejected from a land fill.  I put a towel on it before I sat on it.  Darren got a lint roller and "vacuumed" the carpets.  At least we left it cleaner than we found it.  We were able to have a great time despite the dead cockroaches.  
He did it!
His home for 6 weeks in Marianna
They also have no internet and no TV at the house. So Darren had to go to the library to to his school assignments and such.

Anywho, there were some caves that we went to that were fun. Darren and I really like spelunking.  We went to Nutty Putty while we were dating and that will always be a special memory.  Me, driving my dad's green Jeep Cherokee really crazy over the dirt road trying to show off for Darren.  Sorry mom and dad.

Getting ready to go in the caves.  Hearing the rules from the tour guide  which we heard another 20 times while in the cave.  We get it, my kids aren't going to touch the precious stalactites.


So cool!

Yes I have a husband! Here he is!

The wedding cake formation.  Pretty cool.

COOL!- But Don't Touch!


 Well I would have taken more pictures, but my camera's flash got turned off and I couldn't figure how to turn it back on. 

Talking about cave tours I am reminded the difference between America and other countries.  The laws in America can be annoying sometimes, but really they make everything nice and clean.  What does this have to do with caves?  Well, a cave tour in America is structured, organized and safe.  The path through the cave had been made completely safe.  No ducking, or crawling.   Just a nice paved path to walk along.  Any place the cave had been a little small they had carved out so you could comfortably walk through without hitting your head or tripping.  Any extra rooms or scaryy drop offs had been filled in with rock or blocked off to keep everyone safe.  And they won't let you touch anything. 
When Darren and I were newly-ish married we went on a trip to Belize and went on a cave tour.   Our tour guide did not speak any English.   It made it hard to understand as the whole group of us were Americans.  Luckily there was one guy who was halfway decent at Spanish and translated for us.  We walked along a sort of path as a string of lights flickered overhead, powered by a huge, noisy generator outside.  I knew for sure they would go out any moment and we would all be lost forever.  As we walked along we saw an alter they used to use for sacrifices.  It was pretty creepy.  A little further along our tour guide played the drums on the stalagmites, showing us how they all made different sounds.  If only our American tour guide had been there she surly would have fainted right then and there!  He continued this music on if we passed close to any stalactites or stalagmites. We ventured deeper in the cave and there were steep drop offs into blackness with no hand rails or anything! At one point we walked along some make shift metal bridge that looked like a kid had built.  Falling would have been certain death.  I am sure if someone had fallen the guide would have just kept on going.  When we were pretty deep in the cave the string of lights overhead ended. Our guide asked if anyone had a flashlight.  Yea, that's right.  Our guide had no light source in case that string of lights had gone out.  We all looked around at each other and 2 people presented little lights on their key chains.   These 2 were going to go in front and our tour guide was going to take us back a different way.  He smiled and thought this was such a fun idea. I was so naive, and agreed!  I shudder at the thought now.  Maybe I'm getting older or smarter. I think the latter.  Anyways, we divided into 2 groups and followed our 2 little light sources over, around, under rocks and through rooms.  I started to wonder if this was such a good idea.  Eventually we made it back to the outside world.  I will never forget that trip and the guide had no flashlight. 






Lets play a game.

Can anyone see a pattern here?









Yea, the baby won't sit in his high chair! Not sure what to do with it.  I want to get rid of it, but then I think- wait, what if I need it?  What if he changes his mind and wants to sit in it?  Plus, it's like extra counter space!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Meltdown

Life has been crazy. What's new.  Six weeks of Darren being gone was not fun.  And I mean, not fun.  I tried to hold it together and did for the most part.  I had a melt down the last day.  My meltdown consisted of a serious talk with Darren, a good cry, then I went running, and then I was much better. I wondered why I couldn't hold it together for 1 more day?- I was so close!  I wanted so hard to be completely independent and strong.  But then I thought of how the last 6 weeks had been: with Darren gone,  while I was in this little townhouse with 4 kids, trying to home school Paul, staying up till 1 every night for my Etsy shop, having Bronchitis the whole time, living on a very limited budget, with no family around.  I'm not going to lie.  It was hard.  I need Darren.  My kids need their dad.  Having him gone all the time is hard.  Even when he is home he works so much.  Yesterday he worked 13 1/2 hours.  Yea, you can add it up- 6 am to 7:30 pm.  I didn't know there were so many hours in the day.  It wouldn't be so harsh if he were getting paid- even a dollar an hour would add up with how much he works!  I won't complain too much because I am so grateful he is a hard worker and is in school.  I will say though,  I can not wait for the day when he works 40 hours a week and we get a paycheck!